Heather is the firm’s managing partner and divorce law guru. Heather knows all the ins and outs of divorce in Maryland and DC, and she knows exactly what to do to put her clients in a position to accomplish their goals.
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Keeping the House in the Divorce May Be More Costly Than You Think
The divorce is almost final, and it turns out you are getting the house, which is great news! It’s the house where your children grew up and made happy memories, and now they don’t have to leave their friends or switch schools. You don’t have to worry about packing up your things and trying to…
Read MoreWhat Are Child Support Payments Supposed to Cover?
Whether you pay or receive child support, that monthly payment is financially important to everyone in your family. On average, according to the United States government, people pay around $5,760 per year in child support. When going through a divorce or split and determining child support, both parents should have a good understanding about how…
Read MoreHow the COVID-19 Pandemic Changed Divorce
The world is forever changed since the COVID-19 pandemic took hold last year – the way we interact with each other, the way we work, and the way we do business have all evolved as the pandemic forced us into different ways of living. Even as more Americans are vaccinated, it’s likely to be a…
Read MoreWhat to Do if Your Spouse Has Borderline Personality Disorder
Living with someone who has borderline personality disorder (BPD) can feel confusing and cause anxiety in your relationship. It often leads to rifts in personal relationships and even poses problems in maintaining employment, which can lead to further turbulence due to financial woes. Understanding BPD will go a long way in determining whether your marriage…
Read MoreMeet Raylynn T. Best-James, McCabe Russell, PA’s New Associate!
McCabe Russell, PA is proud to introduce Raylynn T. Best-James, one of our new Associate Attorneys! Raylynn’s experiences practicing estate planning & administration, personal injury, and other civil matters, along with family law, give her a unique advantage in the courtroom and during negotiations. Her proactive approach and attention to detail has made her a…
Read MoreReligious Extremism and Seeking Divorce: What You Should Know
When you and your spouse no longer share the same beliefs as a result of him or her subscribing to what you consider to be radical ideals, sharing a household can become beyond difficult. We aren’t talking about a slightly different view on something or a difference of opinion on one issue; we are talking…
Read MoreCivil Unions Vs. Marriage in Government Retirement Plans
Relationships are complicated, but even more complicated can be making a relationship official by law. We don’t mean that the actual ceremony can be tough to maneuver; we mean that all of “fun” administrative issues that come along with life can become more complicated by legally merging your lives. Part of that complication comes in…
Read MoreWhat to Do When a Spouse Is in Rehab
The pressures of life can be difficult to handle and for some people, marriage can add unexpected stressors. Financial troubles, insecurities that your spouse could be getting attention elsewhere, and arguments that you aren’t holding up your end of your partnership can send a spouse into a downward spiral that includes substance abuse and addiction.…
Read MoreHow Does My Divorce Affect My Stimulus Check?
In December, legislators agreed to a second coronavirus relief package, with direct payments of $600 to eligible adults, plus $600 per child dependent. Many individuals and families have already received their stimulus payments, and other payments are on their way. However, for couples in the process of divorce or child support disputes, this stimulus check…
Read MoreFalsifying Drug Tests for Child Custody Cases
How many times have you heard your child’s other parent claim he or she is sober, but you’ve seen the same signs of being under the influence so many times that you know it’s a lie? You have concerns about your child being around that parent but your fears have fallen on deaf ears so…
Read MoreHow to Help Your Kids Through the Holidays After Divorce
Kids of divorce experience the holiday blues at least as much as newly single parents do. It can feel “weird” to split a holiday, or to only see one parent instead of both. This can leave kids feeling angry and frustrated at one (or both) parents and feeling guilty for not somehow making it all…
Read MoreWhat Documents Should I Bring To My First Meeting With My Divorce Lawyer? A Checklist.
You should not put a lot of pressure on yourself when you visit with your lawyer for the first time, but some documents can be helpful to your new attorney in assessing the issues in your case. Remember the military adage, “Proper Planning and Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance.” While the documents can seem personal,…
Read MoreWhat is a Scheduling Conference In A Family Law Matter? Pro Tips to Be Prepared
Every piece of paper you receive in the mail regarding your divorce can cause anxiety, but when you receive the notice of your scheduling conference, don’t fret. A scheduling conference is what it sounds like: it’s an opportunity for the court to hear what the issues are, decide how complex your case is, and schedule…
Read MoreWe moved!
We outgrew our old space! But we love Howard County and we love Maple Lawn, so we didn’t move far. We’re one building over from our old location. You can find us now at our new address: 8171 Maple Lawn Boulevard, Suite 350, Fulton, Maryland 20759. For our friends familiar with Maple Lawn, we’re in…
Read MoreDo I have to wait to get divorced? Do I qualify for a Mutual Consent Divorce?
Once you’ve decided you want to be divorced, you don’t want to have to wait. But divorces can take a bit of time, and separating so that you live under separate roofs can be expensive. The mutual consent divorce ground has been around in Maryland for nearly two years now and can alleviate the strain…
Read More2017 Maryland Rising Star Results Are In! Emily L. Russell Recognized
We are pleased to announce that Emily L. Russell, a Partner at McCabe Russell, PA, has been selected to the Super Lawyer’s 2017 Maryland Rising Star list. This is an exclusive list, recognizing no more than 2.5 percent of attorneys in the state. This honor recognizes Emily as an outstanding lawyer who has attained a…
Read MoreMcCabe Russell Welcomes New Associate Shaoli Sarkar, Esq.
McCabe Russell, PA, proudly announces that Shaoli Sarkar, Esq., has joined the firm as an Associate Attorney in the litigation and appellate advocacy practice groups. Shaoli earned her undergraduate degree from Princeton University and her law degree from American University, Washington College of Law in Washington, DC. Prior to joining McCabe Russell, Shaoli served as…
Read MoreMcCabe Russell Announces New Associate Anna S. Sholl, JD
McCabe Russell proudly announces that Anna S. Sholl, JD, has joined the firm as family law associate effective March 14, 2016. While a student at University of Baltimore Law School (summa cum laude 2014), Anna worked with partner Heather McCabe as a teaching assistant, so she is well known to the firm. She is…
Read MoreWhen Your Children Have Fur: Who Gets The Pet in the Divorce?
More often than you think, we have clients come to us who are primarily concerned not about money or retirement or the marital home, but about what will happen to their pets (especially dogs, cats, and horses) upon their separation or divorce. The answer to this question is not usually very satisfying to our clients: …
Read MoreSupreme Court Opinion (V.L. v. E.L.): the Power of A Second-Parent Adoption
For years we have been meeting with same-sex parents and recommending a second-parent adoption where one of the two parents is the biological parent and one is not. Today’s unanimous opinion from the United States Supreme Court demonstrates exactly why. In V.L. v. E.L., two women had been in a same-sex relationship from 1995 until…
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